how should a girl deal with sleazy men?

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cichlaguapote;3342561; said:
Figure out some self defense plan. Sadly you'll probably have to deal with it for most your life.
It's true, sadly.



As far as self-defense, too bad you weren't a little closer, I could show you my pressure point self-defense techniques. lol

If you don't believe they work, ask my friend Nathan. He didn't believe they worked either. Of course all that changed when I made his ear pop and the nerves in his neck start twitching after a simple finger poke. He told me to never do that again after that... lol :D
 
My advice would be to check all your local laws and regulations. Here I can get a permit to carry a pistol, that's a little extreme but there are other options that you might have to better defend yourself. I would highly recommend taking some type of unarmed combatives course if you regularly travel by yourself. Speak up and sound confident - that should scare most ***holes off. Or just send them my way- I'll give them a little lesson in manners-- lol
 
yeah but this guy that was following me was HUGE. well he seemed huge to me anyway lol. he was really intimidating. at one point when he asked me for my number i was wondering if i should just lie and give him a fake number so i wasn't risking getting punched in the face LOL.
 
Yeah Like (natural) said if he doesnt stop then yell at him and tell him to go away and that he is bothering you.. Just make him look like the ass that he is and he will probably walk off, or tell him that ur not into men haha.. Or just find another guy that is around and tell them that a guy won't leave you alone and ask him if he can talk to him or if you can just sit near him on the train so if anything does happen there is someone to help out..Just stay around where there is alot of people and hopefully they won't try anything.. You can also hop on the train that takes you to Italy and I'll be more then happy to lay him on his ass..
 
Being "huge" doesn't really mean anything to be honest. I know plenty of people that are taller than me and have a good 50+ pounds on me that I could handle with little to no problems (and I'm 5' 10" and around 230 last time I checked - but surprisingly solid minus some pudge under my abdomen lol). It all matters how you are able to use what you have. I'm a big, strong guy but I am able to move very quickly for my size, so anyone bigger than me or the same size as me is most likely going to be slower.


With you, I'd say if you don't think you can outrun them, and are in physical danger of any kind, use a swift kick between the legs, and SCREAM as loud as you can so people know to take it seriously. A strong punch to the My Apple is also incredibly effective.
 
Twixy;3342630; said:
Take him home and feed hit to your SH....

see that's exactly why i didn't let him follow me home :D don't want my SH having bad feeders for dinner :D
 
Stump;3342618; said:
Being "huge" doesn't really mean anything to be honest. I know plenty of people that are taller than me and have a good 50+ pounds on me that I could handle with little to no problems (and I'm 5' 10" and around 230 last time I checked - but surprisingly solid minus some pudge under my abdomen lol). It all matters how you are able to use what you have. I'm a big, strong guy but I am able to move very quickly for my size, so anyone bigger than me or the same size as me is most likely going to be slower.


With you, I'd say if you don't think you can outrun them, and are in physical danger of any kind, use a swift kick between the legs, and SCREAM as loud as you can so people know to take it seriously. A strong punch to the My Apple is also incredibly effective.

lol i'm 5ft4 and this guy looked like a giant compared to me! hmmm screaming is an idea but the people in london are always in such a hurry i don't think they would care that someone was after me.
 
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