its not the same aunt i live with.... and im afraid to contact a lawyer casue of uncle doesnt like them and i dont now what would happen to me.. nd i have no legel gaurden
i am geting VERY IRRITATED!!!!!!!!!
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You will need legal help with this one. If your uncle does not like it then he will have to help sort it out to keep lawyers out of it. Even if there is a will written it needs a lawyer to enforce it. It may not seem right but without legal help or help from family anything you do is pretty useless, and should you just take the stuff back you could be looking at theft charges should she call the cops.
did your mom write a will if she did and it says the money and here stuff should go to you then legally its yours i would look for the will or go to a lawyer to help you find one if there is one go to a judge or a lawyer and get whats right fully yours
To be perfectly honest I think your Aunt not giving you your inheritance yet is a wise choice, because your spending behaviour that's apparent due to these forums makes it clear that you're in no state to come into any money because it will all be wasted.
You need to let go, stop wishing, and start doing. Go and see either your mothers old solicitor or hire a new one and sort this out legally. Whinging on forums isn't doing, if you took some initiative in your life and stopped needlessly spending money, I'd be quite sure that your Aunt wouldn't be holding this money back from you. She's doing you a favour really.
You need to let go, stop wishing, and start doing. Go and see either your mothers old solicitor or hire a new one and sort this out legally. Whinging on forums isn't doing, if you took some initiative in your life and stopped needlessly spending money, I'd be quite sure that your Aunt wouldn't be holding this money back from you. She's doing you a favour really.
uh jape, this money my mom has been saving FOR ALOTA YEARS and its special money from difernt continets or different parts of the world WHY WOULD I SPEND IT?!?! theres easly over 500.00 in all the money my mom saved for me.. so yah im not gonna spend it.
convict_breeder;1778893; said:
I am sorry for the loss of your mom
I lost my dad 8 years ago in June and I had the same problem. He had a partner who is was with for 9 years, they brought a house together which was worth a fair amount and he put all of his retirment money into that house.He suddenly died of a heart attack in 2000 without warning, previous to this he always told me that if anything should happen to him I would be taken care of and he told me I had been included in his will. he originally made a will in 1994, then when they moved to this new house in 1998 he made a new will which my aunt was a witness to and i was left money in that will.
when he died his partner refused to speak to me, she pretty much blanked me at the funeral. she was always mean to me anyway, if my dad ever brought me a pair of jeans or something she would throw a fit and shout and tell him to not spend money on me. I was still at school at this point.
Anyway when he died she refused to let me see the will, she actually stalled me from seeing it for 3 months but did tell me that my dads money would be split between me and her 3 children (not my dads kids hers and they were all in thier 30's) in the end i went to the solicitor and finally got a copy of the will which was dated 1994 not 1996 when he made a new will. I was not in the will, but how could someone put forward an out of date will and get away with it? I couldn't prove the later will which i was in so i ended up with absolutely nothing. His partner died 3 years later and her 3 kids walked away with all of my dads money. The law sucks but most of when it comes to money some people can be so devious and greedy!
I don't know what to suggest, your aunt should respect your moms wishes and give you what is yours and what she wanted you to have.
WHY DOES EVERYONE CARE ABOUT GETTING STUFF WHEN PEOPLE DIE!!! I am tired of people whinning about this stuff. My gramps died 2 years ago and I still hear my dad and uncle fight over whats theirs! I was supposed to get stuff too but did I get it NOO AND I DON"T CARE!!! My cousin got it all 3 cars ( 1962 Corvette, 2000 Mercury sable and a 1997 ford ranger XLT), fishing equipment carpentry equipment up the *** (easy over $20,000 worth of equipment) and a bunch of other stuff EVEN HIS HOUSE but I never felt like I wanted it all. I mean why BOTHER your loved one died why would you get materialistic over death?
StarDust I understand exactly how you felt during that time when your father had that partner because about 6 years ago my dad divorced a lady who was nasty mean ugly drunk old bag and she would scream and throw stuff at him if he spent a little money on me because she was a greedy ole *****. She threw a TV that my dad bought me for christmas down the stairs because he bought it for me and he also bought me an Xbox original about 8 years ago. Man was she greedy and demanded she get ruby rings and crap.
StarDust I understand exactly how you felt during that time when your father had that partner because about 6 years ago my dad divorced a lady who was nasty mean ugly drunk old bag and she would scream and throw stuff at him if he spent a little money on me because she was a greedy ole *****. She threw a TV that my dad bought me for christmas down the stairs because he bought it for me and he also bought me an Xbox original about 8 years ago. Man was she greedy and demanded she get ruby rings and crap.
