sorry to hear that conner...i'd feel the same way too; i would take a break, enjoy what you have now, and when your feeling up to it, get yourself another ray 
hang in there man
hang in there man
vamptrev;4152040; said:sorry to hear bro but hang in there... crap happens to everyone its just part of the hobby
which tank was this in? it only happen in 1 of your tanks? there is deff a good reason why they died but we may never find out what it was...
Ponyo;4152603; said:what were they eating the night before?
FishDog;4153014; said:Sorry to hear. Sounds almost like something strange was going on and when you moved one from one tank to the other it the problem transported. Water testing is good but it only gives a snap shot to what the water looks like at that exact moment. It does not show the fluctuation in between tests. Could of been ammonia spikes over a period of time or even some kind of strange bacteria. What happened to your male was a touch on the weird side. I still do not think the rotted disk edge was caused by another fish or ray. Take a break, bleach the tank out, recycle, and give it another whirl down the road. You will be glad you did.