however she got control of him so well, i would love to have a man, that just did what I said like that, I would never ask someone to give away there fishies. but It seems he is very wealthy and does not care about his fish, or she does not care about his fish or him. My werser half/insignificant other tells me im greedy when im buying fish food , so he really wants no fish,, did I listen,,,, no way.... I know ive got a future ex husband, every time I do a water change, my fish love me more than he does, and I spend more time with them for that reason. that guy is kinda lucky that his wife cares at all.