Is it possible to have a crush on a fish?

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Iz not a crush. Itz a squishy-fuzzy. I gets dem, too.

A lot of my fish are deformities and culls. My paralyzed betta lived for several months in my care but passed suddenly. I don't remember how he died.

I still have a lumpy SB paratilapia polleni they were going to kill and a SB Jade Goby nobody would buy. Also have a really old, twisted raphael catfish somebody dumped on PetCo.

When I was first starting into fish for real I found a jewel cichlid with no upper lip. He just sort of inhaled his food and did all the work with his inner teeth. But as he grew the mouth narrowed and he eventually could not eat at all anymore. I tried lots of things but he was just losing weight and getting weak so I did put him down. If I had him now I would at least try a little surgery to open the mouth before throwing in the towel.

It is good to care for the individual. It takes sacrifice and is not for the uppity or profit-minded fish person. You have to have the capacity for mercy and empathy and be willing to extend them to fish.
 
DCOWBOYS;4685027; said:
I have gone into LFS's and swore to my self i wasnt going to buy any fish,but then it happens "BANG", i would come across a fish that would just get me excited and i would just have to have it if i didnt have enough cash on me i would rip out the ol plastic(wich i seldom ever do!!).
I've so been there, done that. Went to look to see if they had "something" and ended up with "something else" because they didn't have it and some fishy just HAD to come home with me. - LOL.

komodo182;4685098; said:
my gf has a thing for injured fish....
I get that. I saw one the other day that had its tail completely demolished and it broke my heart for the little guy....

JteSchertz;4685112; said:
I am the same way but about most animals. I always go for the underdog. I think "that poor thing, no one is ever going to take it home" so I am the sucker that ends up taking it and giving it the best life possible. Usually they are the ones that live forever!!!
Ummmm - yes, I feel that too. I have 6 dogs (please no one roast me on this....) Who's going to love the "old / blind / hip problem / food aggressive " dog??? (And lets be clear, this is way too many dogs... and there will NOT be more in the house. Animals are NOT disposable and I am doing my part.)

Spiritofthesoul;4685171; said:
Lets say if I could legally marry my bichir, I WOULD
Love it Spirit of the Soul! That is too funny! Makes me feel better!

blacktarotannis;4685219; said:
Its kind of like a parental thing i think. You know the fish could live a long life if given a chance. You also know the fish store will kill it cause no one wants it. So you break down and get it. I have done it so many times. My mom has done it and given me the fish....
She would be like "OOOOOoooh look what I found that needs your help.." lol
I love your Mom. How sweet!
 
knifegill;4688853; said:
Iz not a crush. Itz a squishy-fuzzy. I gets dem, too.

A lot of my fish are deformities and culls. My paralyzed betta lived for several months in my care but passed suddenly. I don't remember how he died.

I still have a lumpy SB paratilapia polleni they were going to kill and a SB Jade Goby nobody would buy. Also have a really old, twisted raphael catfish somebody dumped on PetCo.

When I was first starting into fish for real I found a jewel cichlid with no upper lip. He just sort of inhaled his food and did all the work with his inner teeth. But as he grew the mouth narrowed and he eventually could not eat at all anymore. I tried lots of things but he was just losing weight and getting weak so I did put him down. If I had him now I would at least try a little surgery to open the mouth before throwing in the towel.

It is good to care for the individual. It takes sacrifice and is not for the uppity or profit-minded fish person. You have to have the capacity for mercy and empathy and be willing to extend them to fish.

Your so sweet. I love that you rescue fish too. I think I say "crush" because its that warm fuzzy feeling that you get with puppy love. I am so happy I am not alone.

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After the first two replies, I thought everyone was going to think I was insane.

I do have thick skin though and do feel a little "crazy" in general - so I can take it, but so many of these posts helped me understand what I am feeling.

Thanks again to EVERYONE!
 
R1_Ridah;4688869; said:
Both DragonHunter and House64 have crush's on Bichir's for some apparent reason...of all the fish...

Way to "out" other MFK's - LOL!
 
svang55;4688891; said:
beastiality is bannable

That's just wrong.... That's not what I am talking about. But kinda funny that you posted it.
 
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