is there a cure or pessimism? (vent/help)

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if you say so del. have you ever consitered volenteering at lets say maybe an aquarium? that made me feel important and had a great time while it lasted. met some great new people.
 
messiner said:
if you say so del. have you ever consitered volenteering at lets say maybe an aquarium? that made me feel important and had a great time while it lasted. met some great new people.
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i did

the chula vista nature interperative center.

i juust stopped showing up cause it wasnt interesting.

the curator like me alot becasue of what i knew and how well i did at maintaining the exhibits. But the people where not my kind of people. i didnt exactly fit in.

i could try the birch aquarium in la jolla or maybe even sea world but thats a long ass drive.:naughty:
 
I hate to use the cliche "live every day like it is your last", but it's the truth. I worked at a funeral home and quickly learned that your life may end at any time. It changed the way I look at everything. Find what makes you happy, and go for it. You seem to like helping people......take the ball and run with it. There isnt much youth around that isnt worthless anymore, you seem to be an exception. I'm not just pissing on your leg to give you a warm feeling.
 
Yeah I have trouble sleeping alot becuase of thinking so much. could'nt sleep tonight so I just played GT4 and watched my fish all night.

Keep your HEAD UP... think more in the gray area and out side the box
 
Del .. dont let emotions get the better of you. You must rise above that. I have been through that road and still go through it once in a while. Its all about perception.. how you percieve life is. You can either accentuate the + or the - .

I have some pretty heavy things going in my life right now but you will not see it and i will not let it get me down... i make it a point that it doesnt. Just ride it out.. try to keep yourself busy and do some productive things that will make you feel fulfilled. You will be fine , hang in there !
 
you know del i used to get real depressed about life and the world when i wass your age... i guess i cant give any good advice to help ya feel better because it takes somethin different for everyone.. i didnt get rid of my pessimistic attitude for awhile it sucked always being so negative.. but hopefully here soon you will realize that life is a great thing to have and you can enjoy it to its fullest...
 
Life's not always fair. I find my salvation everday when I come home to see my family and gf. Just know, there are always people that have it worse than you do.
 
Find what you love and love what you find. You are looked up to here. If I had a problem with my aro when I was new, you were there for me. You write things that are intelligent and well thought out.

We all could have it worse, I grew up in Saudi Arabia, I remember tripping over dead bodies covered in flies and the stench, it was just normal for there, then. I was lucky and thankful I had US Citizenship. I could get on a plane and fly away but that's life in so many parts of this world.

Your fish look up to you, and I know you love them. Everyday touch the life of a person or animal and you will feel better inside. Life is hard. But the obstacles wouldn't be in front of you if you weren't meant to overcome them. ;)
 
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