You have to realize those youtube videos do not provide history of the tank. How often fish have been moved out, how often new fish are placed in there. What you see is a single snapshot in time. You rarely see updates. The ones that do provide tank updates, you will notice stock has changed.
Go straight to the 350g, and skip the growout 125g tank. The hierarchy will change in a larger tank, and you have to be willing to deal with loss of $$ when that happens.
Go straight to the 350g, and skip the growout 125g tank. The hierarchy will change in a larger tank, and you have to be willing to deal with loss of $$ when that happens.