Man Rule: Would You Break It?

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bro's before ho's, if you have to, tell her to break up with him first, then wait a month.
 
A. If you like her, don't let it go to the "friend" level, once she's a friend you're always just friends. In my experience, dating friends never works out, if there's a breakup at that point every thing is seriously messed up. To avoid that, it's all or nothing date her or stay out of your boy's territory.

B. I've done what you've described, figured out that the girl was better off with me then the other guy, and each time, she left me (eventually) for another guy. Easy come, easy go.


Personally, I'd do it. I've done it before. Usually doesn't end well, so if you do get it to work, hold on loosely. Enjoy the time, but don't get too attached right away.
 
Mike fail;2638702; said:
bro's before ho's, if you have to, tell her to break up with him first, then wait a month.
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Totally agree, don't just sweep her away, at least make it look like she left him then found you. That may make things easier.

Mystus Redtail;2638731; said:
A. If you like her, don't let it go to the "friend" level, once she's a friend you're always just friends. In my experience, dating friends never works out, if there's a breakup at that point every thing is seriously messed up. To avoid that, it's all or nothing date her or stay out of your boy's territory.
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Now, I realize this might be confusing, but I hope you see what I mean. The friend territory has only three possible outcomes:

1. You are friends and you watch her become single, then not date you because you're her shoulder to cry on. The "brother" she never had. Then she dates more guys you feel are wrong for her, and the story repeats.

2. You finally convince her that despite your friendship you are meant to be together. You date, eventually you break up, and it tears all of your mutual friends apart, some come with you some go with her. Or you watch her date your friends.

3. You fall in love and live happily ever after.


That's it, the only three ways that "friends" can turn out.
 
This hurts... I hate loving something that is so off limits and will probably turn out oh so bad-either she says no, my bro is pissed, or I live wondering what would have happened....
 
I'm going to be honest. I was in the same situation a couple years ago. I went with my heart and picked the girl. My friend was really mad at first but he got over it. We are still bestfriends to this day. And now I have a 1 year old son with the girl of my dreams and we are soon to be married. This is the same girl that left my bestfriend for me. In the end everything will work out the way it is supposed to all you have to do is follow your heart and put making yourself happy first. It sounds selfish but do you want to spend the rest of your life wondering what "if" you make the call. Let me know how it goes bro. Best of luck.
 
hmm last i checked i make my own rules and dont follow no cardinal man rules.... cause last i checked there really was none ;)
 
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