HAHA...thats what I say too, but like me, he probably has to remove every frickin thing in the tank just to catch that one fish. It can take me up to 3 hrs just to get one fish out of the tank by the time I move the furniture to get to the tank, pull all the driftwood/plants/boulders etc.
As Im sure you know, if they can hide under it, they will

so the ol "sex without venting" thread is born.
Id say male too, but Im no expert on them. Ive never had one that didnt get its *** beat by other tankmates and have to be re-homed after a short period of time.