Might have to let my fish go.

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Single again! Single again! Single again! Get some beer, listen so some good music and find a younger woman. Most of the time there's a bright side, try to find it. Also do not to fight with the ex, it will be easier if she is not mad at you. Obviously I've been there a few times........
 
dude :( that sucks!
 
Egon;4217708; said:
Single again! Single again! Single again! Get some beer, listen so some good music and find a younger woman. Most of the time there's a bright side, try to find it. Also do not to fight with the ex, it will be easier if she is not mad at you. Obviously I've been there a few times........


Umm not when there is a 2 year old child involved. Just be there for her. Who cares about the fish?! I love my fish but it's time for you to make sure you stay in that little girls life! Not to say loosing the fish isn't a big loss but there will be more oscars....
 
bahamaqt00;4217767; said:
Umm not when there is a 2 year old child involved. Just be there for her. Who cares about the fish?! I love my fish but it's time for you to make sure you stay in that little girls life! Not to say loosing the fish isn't a big loss but there will be more oscars....

I don't understand why you think he's going to run out on his two year old? Weird? Nothing in any of these posts indicated that? He's has to get rid of his fish............and that's the responsible thing to do. He sounds like a very responsible person. Getting a divorce has nothing to do with how much he loves his child. Call your dad.............
 
Egon;4217708; said:
Obviously I've been there a few times........

Wonder why? lol. Again OP, sorry about the loss. Everything happens for a reason so hopefully something good can come from this. Keep your head up!
 
Its not the worst think that can happen, the fish you will definately have a tank set up again so I wouldn't worry about that. Main thing is stay in your daughters life. I got divorced when my child was two also. I made sure I was always available for her. Don't let any new girlfriend or future wife f234k with your realationship with your child. Don't ever badmouth the ex espicially in front of the child. My daughter is now 27 and graduated college and just got married and we are as close as can be. And she tells me she really appeciates that I never talked down mom and I stayed in her life. After you get settled down again and need some free fish pm me I always have more than my tanks can hold. Good Luck and stay focused!
 
Allan01230;4218030; said:
Its not the worst think that can happen, the fish you will definately have a tank set up again so I wouldn't worry about that. Main thing is stay in your daughters life. I got divorced when my child was two also. I made sure I was always available for her. Don't let any new girlfriend or future wife f234k with your realationship with your child. Don't ever badmouth the ex espicially in front of the child. My daughter is now 27 and graduated college and just got married and we are as close as can be. And she tells me she really appeciates that I never talked down mom and I stayed in her life. After you get settled down again and need some free fish pm me I always have more than my tanks can hold. Good Luck and stay focused!

Well said!
 
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