From the scientific research papers I read females are heavier than males and have a bit more girth yes. Other than that, from memory (which is hazy) no.
I don't think this is uncommon with a lot of fish, and animal, species. The bigger one definitely makes a lot of effort to grab a lot of food, but is definitely much bigger. I'm not too worried about it since I'm not interested in breeding, and I'm pretty sure it's impossible to do so anyway. Lol. It has been a lot of fun so far watching them grow from the 4" I got them at to 12-13" now. And, they still have a long way to go. Lol.
