Of the fish you listed, Aros are only ones I really have experience with. You may want to post threads for the other fishin thier respective forums. If you were to start with a 5" sliver aro, within a year it will need to be in a larger tank. On average they grow 1 to 1 1/4" a month, so in a year the aro will be 16-20" long and very cramped in that 90g. You could go with a black aro, they grow slower, but with blacks being wild caught, you usually do'nt find any smaller then 9-10" so the same time frame will apply. With either the black or silver you will need to eventually have a larger tank than a 220g though.
Austriallian aros (jardini) are best kept alone once they hit the 10" mark. Finding adiquate tankmates can be a problem, but the jar would be more suited to the 220g that you are planning.