sorry for blowing up like that last nite, i just have had this happen to many times of forums where people just naturally assume that i dont know anything, in this case that i am just buying a ray cause i saw one in the store or something like that
i have done research into them and am reading more and more about them everyday.
the whole reason i joined this website/forum was because i read through most of the websites i could find, read through a few books and my next thought was to talk to people who know rays best, people who own and care for them.
be assured this is not going to be a fad with me and i am not going to get bored after a while with rays as it probably has happend with some people, i have loved rays all my life and just recently (in the past few years) got interested in freshwater ones, only in the past 6 months or so did i start thinking about keeping one.
i guess i'll shut up about my life story now and stop sidetracking my own thread... lol(damn i talk to much)
anyways just wanted to apologize to anyone who thought my outburst was directed to them.