ballinouttacntrol;4302132; said:roflmao, wow oh wow. This thread is funny. First, can't say i blame fat dude or any dude for staring at you.
Second, it's funny that anyone can be offended that someone doesn't feel comfortable at a gym. You're a guy, we're just wired differently. You should know better to even try to put yourself in her shoes.
Three, my contribution to this convo.....since the OP seems....determined not to gain any muscles, it sounds like she just needs somethin for cardio. Any work with weight wouldn't do any good since she wants to stay soft and curvey. The medicine ball and small weight sound like a good idea. If you can walk in heels, i'm sure you can handle exercising on a ball. Any basic work out video would also probably help you accomplish your goal. It just seems a bench is meant for way more then you want to use them for.
i disagree completely, your not goin to lose your softness, the human body will not change that dramaticly that fast.
you will not bulk up if you dont want to, by the look of your pics (i was looking but im not fat so dont worry) you will lose a lot more weight before you see any toneing.
i would suggest getting a trainner who will train you at home and not posting on mfk for workout advice unless you want to grow scales and a nice set of pectoral fins and maybe lift and tighten your dorsal.
bodybuilding.com has a good thread/blogging section.
its not just for body building its for fat loss too