Does anyone know how to get a male ivanacara adoketa to stop chasing the female? They have been together for over a month now and I didn't know if they were a pair since their coloring was the exact same until two weeks ago when the female suddenly turned fully dark and white and the male was dark red. There's no actual damage done by the male but he spooks the female and chases her all around the tank until she hides . I'm just worried she might hurt herself on the glass one day. Is there any way to get them to get along and pair up? Maybe I need to wait a bit longer and they will eventually pair up.