CB, catch your breath, stand back, and just let things develop for a while, and keep your stock low. 29g IS NOT A BIG TANK!! Don't get anymore fish for a while. All you're doing is blowing your money on fish you don't need right now. I can't even keep track of your stock anymore. If you got a coolie loach, you got to watch out for him now, because they got sensitive skin, need special attention when you're feeding him, and he may get picked on by the other fish.
People do get frustrated by you myself included. However, it's also your freedom to take or disregard any advice given. Also our freedom to either give advice or ignore you.
But, know that I believe most of us all want you to succeed, and your fish to THRIVE.
Also, just because you think you want a fish doesn't mean you should get it. I would love to have a 300g tank with a jardini, but right now, I can't because of cost, and space limitations, but that doesn't mean I'm going to stress about it. I enjoy the fish and set-ups I have now, and maybe you should try to also.