My fiancee and I have 2 kids with one on the way. We both have very good jobs and though we aren't rich, all bills are paid 2 cars no car note and we just took a family vacation to st thomas. We live in a nice 3bedroom 2 bath apt and we are comfortable. Here's my delima my fiancees younger brother asked to move in after his girlfriend kicked him out. They have 2 kids and the brother is 26yrs old. My fiancee asked me and I didn't have a problem. But since he moved in march 2010 he's been doing nothing with his life. He quit his job and hasn't looked for one since. he doesn't support his kids doesn't contribute to any bills or food. We bought him an airbed that he sleeps on in the livingroom cause he's NOT sleeping on my leather sectional only I can do that, and my boys shouldn't have to compromise their space. The brother plays video games all night and sleeps and eats for free all day. I'm ready to snatch his lazy *** up and physically kick him out. The other thing is my fiancees parents died when they was young and my fiancee basically raised him with her grandmother until grandma passed. They don't have no other family so my fiancee is over protective of her brother but realizes he's lazy. Bottom line is he gotta what should I do. Sorry for the long post but get this my 180 tank is set up in the livingroom and one day he jokingly said that the water sounds and the hum of the filters keep him up when he's trying to sleep. I lost it and flipped out. He stayed out at his friends house for 2 days until his friends wife kicked him out then he begged and cried to my fiancee to comeback she made him apologize to me. He needs to go to a shelter He's Playing on my fiancees kindness and I've had enough. Thanks for listening to my rant any advice. My fiancee and I have an excellent relationship but I feel throwing him out is gonna cause major tension
