All I was doing was disproving JD7.62's "theory" that if you work hard then you WILL succeed and if you aren't as successful as you would like then you can only blame yourself. While that may be true for some people others just get caught in the middle and get screwed over by others decisions.
yes, i agree that sometimes no matter how hard you try, you still can fail. i hope that jd7.62's point was to keep working hard, never give up. when you start blaming others for your position in life, it tends to mean that you're giving up.