I went down to a party we have for kids here tonight. Last minute, decided to Be an older version of myself & sprayed a whole can of silver/white color on my hair.
To my horror, people didn't even act like they noticed anything until I explained it!, they didn't want to be that rude person saying "Wow you've really turned gray all of a sudden... whaaaat??"
Seriously, my husband even held his tongue until I animatedly pointed it out, because he just had cataract surgery and said he saw me standing there under fluorescent lights, actually thinking maybe his sight had gotten a renewed burst of super ultra clarity, of what he'd missed being able to see!.
said I scared his sense of reality.
I don't recommend that spray dye. it's hard to wash out.
and altogether destructive to any remnant of self esteem.