PS: yes, sorry for the messy looking tank. It is a combo of lighting and unscrubbed glass. Water is changed twice a week though so can't be that bad ... i just can't expect the maid (who has other things to do) to also scrub the tank .... besides the aros do not like when the magnetic thing moves around.... i had other things to do when i was back last weekend
The belly is not longer pink for quite sometime but i could not take any photos since my ray does not like to "fly" around the tank too much (at least when i am around)
Found him some selection of mates, but will have to determine the sex of my ray so that i can find him the opposite
PS: all of the current resident aros are moving out by the end of next month into a new aquarium - his sole tank mate (appart from second ray) will be new BBXB aro