Random Question 4 single people 5-25-09

[Camshaft Ramrod]

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So is this a Q about whether meds make someone unattractive? Or is it if medication is necessary? You're not gunnu pull a Tom Cruise on us, are you?...

 

[MadRussian79]

Some people value a strong disciplined mind. A mental capacity to challenge them. I guess meds vs mental growth for anxiety could be viewed as weak by some people?

The circumstances for taking those meds would be a much more telling sign. A trauma victim (war vet, rape, etc.) vs. some Upper Class former house spouse getting their silver spoon taken away.

 

[LurkMcgurk]

In my experience dating people and having family on mood stabilizers (spelling?) the people on mood stabilizers seem to be easily manipulated and even on meds can still flip out with just the push of a button.

Commas and periods go inside of the qoutation marks. Don't correct someone else when you need correcting yourself. By the way, when did you graduate again?

ouch! i call that a burn

 

[Gr8KarmaSF]

The circumstances for taking those meds would be a much more telling sign.

Thank you for your insight.

 

[Gr8KarmaSF]

So is this a Q about whether meds make someone unattractive? Or is it if medication is necessary? You're not gunnu pull a Tom Cruise on us, are you?...

Tom Cruise?

The question is, on a mental level is somebody less attractive if they need meds?

Here is another question for everybody. If somebody is on meds do you think they should simply focus on themselves and improving there mentality and NOT date until they are in a much better, more stable, healthy state of mind?

 

[Nic]

well if your dating a person its not really important to say i eat valium like candy....

seriously i see no problem with it... wouldnt bother me if i was dating somebody who took them prob ask for one to calm me down LOL...

now if a person was taking anti psychotic meds i would see a red flag and leave... but anxiety meds is no problem... like i said everybody should be made to take one every day...

 

[Neervana]

one of my friends used to be like that. at first i just tried to cope with it then it just got really annoying because she would keep on having panick attacks for no reason at all. i wouldnt say that she was weak in my eyes. but it got annoying because she wouldnt do anything about it and because she refused to take her medication. so i tried to force her to take it by being really stern with her and trying to make her deal with her responsibilities, but then after doing this for a year i just gave up and we didnt speak again.

i don't think anxiety can be helped through discpline or therapy. i tried that with her for a year....and im not a patient person but i forced myself to be. still never worked! so yeah...meds are there for a reason

 

[fatcat]

I say it would matter to me. It kinda runs in my gf family I guess. For a long time I even thought it was just an excuse for them to use so they wouldn't have to deal with **it. There's nothing more annoying than being carefull with an issue because someone may have an attack. Idk, I'm soooo easy goin for the most part, I just don't understand. It seems they work themselves up most of the time. But if I could choose anxiety or no anxiety befor hand, I say no.

 

[cichlaguapote]

We all have at least one issue and really no ones perfect. If your med(s) help you keep control and you're otherwise a great person, great personality, and are damn attractive then it's a none issue to me and IMO doesn't make them less attractive. It's hard nowadays just to find people who meet those basics. But I'm not one of those people who are shallow who thinks one little thing out of whack on a person makes them less attractive.

Do I think there are wrong times to date? For sure. But I don't think someone with anxiety issues should hold back from dating, might do more damage to be lonely then to actually date once in a while. Life is too short.

 

[beex215]

BTW Jer, it's "too", not "to".


And you're a teacher?

Commas and periods go inside of the qoutation marks. Don't correct someone else when you need correcting yourself. By the way, when did you graduate again?

holy shazam. got burn did did