frnchjeep;5030183; said:It took me a while to learn my lesson with cichlids. I don't keep them any more. I only have a jag who lives with a group of pacus, and a JD who is so calm I trust him to live with my motoro. Thats all that is left out of keeping almost exclusively cichlids. They are too much of a hassle. Their attitudes will make you pull your hair out.
I love the thread title, BTW. I laughed as soon as I saw it.
I think that's the point of keeping Cichlids. You never know what you're gonna get - It's a challenge. You might read a hundred books about i.e. a Firemouth being peaceful and end up with a really bad tempered one. It's fun to watch them interact, grow, etc. And if you do everything right, you get rewarded with stunning adult fish.
I'm personally not a fan of a bunch of pretty fish with absolutely no personality swimming in circles and eating flakes all day. For that I'll buy a fake aquarium with plastic battery-operated fish.
