I used to use that fine gravel as well, unfortunately there are no LFS's within an hour of my location, Fosters & Smith does not carry any gravel worth buying IMO, and petblow is really expensive. So PFS it was.
Thanks guys...sand I got was really clean, claimed to be all natural and non toxic. It didnt need to be washed, but I did anyways. Great stuff, super white. Pretty fine, but doesnt seem to be moving around. I have air stones and heater running, no eheim on it yet but soon...just put a bunch of guppies in to start the cycle...will be great feeders for my grow out cichlids/Hoplias malabaricus.
Not sure now if I will add the other stuff...we are many h2o changes away from adding any serious stock.