Should I just give up?

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tyl089

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Jan 2, 2007
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Here's the situation:

My brother in law got himself a jardini in a 20g for grow out without asking me, without cleaning out the old substrate before he set it up, without waiting for tank to cycle.

So far, I'm doing water changes 50-60% everyother day to keep the jardini healthy enough to either give back or trade off when he's a bit bigger also setting up as much plants as possible to absorb toxins, as well using my Prime to detox water after water change.

What does he do but set up two baby plecos, as well as a bunch of feeders after telling him not to have any fish with him, and only use as much feeder as he can eat in a day; well at least only seven left from about 20.

Today, found jardini lying quietly on the bottom, did a water test, ammonia is zero, but nitrite is 0.5ppm. I didn't even bother to test nitrate.

I'm throwing it out to you all. Should I just give up, let the poor fish die, or continue to try to care for it? Cause it's not my fish, he don't listen to advise anyway, seem to like to throw money away, and worse, I know I'm stressed, always bi**ching and moaning to my wife about his stupidity, and ofcourse
the wife is short w/me too.

I'm tired guys and I'm tired of everyother days doing this to my wife and she doing this back to me. :swear::swear: I'll do what the majority advise you guys
give. :confused::confused::(:(
 
Why are you doing the water changes anyways? You're just enabling him.
 
because i don't want the fish to die. It's a beautiful jardini, and it's still a baby and I don't like to see it suffer, and I thought the guy will learn something, it that too much to ASK??!!
 
If I were you, I would just go to his house with a tupperware container, put the jardini in it, and leave.
 
Kind of torn on this one, i'd hate to see the Jar die but then again like fobrinkle you're just enabling him and he'll just continue to let you do his dirty work... I say sell the fish to someone that can take care of it and just tell him it died and buy him a couple cheap fish to cycle his tank..Just my opinion though.
 
I guess i should've said also that he lives in my house part of the week; that's why im doing water changes and all that; I can see the damn thing everyday!!!

Thanx for all input though. with two tanks of my own, it was already a handful; plus he also got a FH in a 10 4.5 inches. Yes, I'm caring for it too.
 
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