Mostly agree on this, really what I had in mind when I said certain tankmates can bring out their aggression. Though I'd qualify and say it's not a 100% rule and it's not always size in itself that makes the difference, at least from what I've seen. The attitude of the other fish is a factor, or things like whether both are males looking to be the dominant fish in the tank or similar. I've kept (adult) green terrors with same size or even a bit larger fish before and they were fine, but the other fish also deferred to the green terror, sometimes after some squaring off convinced them it was in their best interests.
One instance was one Malawi tank I had where a group of C. moorii were being punks to the other fish. Put a similar sized green terror in the tank and they settled right down and that was that. They seemed quite impressed with him, to the point it was comical... almost like we're not worthy, we're not worthy.
What I've seen is green terrors don't intimidate easily and don't like to back down when challenged. All this is tank raised. As far as wilds, those I've kept always had a big chip on their shoulder, even as 2 inch juvies in tanks with larger fish.
All this brings to mind I saw a gt species tank once. Awesome tank, don't remember exact size, but there were something like 8-10 adults, only green terrors and a large royal pleco or two.