So, there is this girl...

[Chaz88]

Need some non fish related advice from some fish people. There is this girl that seams interested. There seams to be a mutual spark and she is friendly and happy when I see her. She is an incredibly busy single mother. I understand that quite well, I am also a single parent. The problem is she will not commit to even going out to lunch. No matter what I come up with or how convenient the situation she always has some reason she can not go. So is this just a polite way of saying she is not interested or should I just relax and give it more time?

Thoughts, opinions, advice... Thanks in advance.

 

[Madding]

She sounds uninterested.

 

[studd muffin]

She sounds uninterested.

 

[SumoNinja]

yea i dont' know man, if she always has an excuse not to go, i'll have to lean towards that she is not interested and just being really nice

what you can do is just go ahead and tell her how you feel. that'll give you a sure answer

 

[seel1990]

i would say give it some time

 

[TheBlackOperations]

It's called Sex Panther by Odeon. It's illegal in nine countries... Yep, it's made with bits of real panther, so you know it's good.


She's not interested, and even if she was, you have to act as if you are not interested - young grasshopper....

 

[OddBallKeeper]

Give it time. And play her :L Thats what im doin at the moment with this girl i know

 

[beex215]

tell your son to give a note to the daughter of the girl you like. the daughter should give the note to her mother. the daughter might not give the note but might keep it to herself and the plan is ruined. your kids get married and you are in the cold.

 

[fishmamma]

There seams to be a mutual spark and she is friendly and happy when I see her.

Maybe you should show here your avi, instant love baby!!


JK

Tell us a little more detail on what you mean by that^^^ Describe body language..
You know her excuses may be valid, like maybe she doesn't have a babysitter...
Or she doesn't like to leave her kids with anyone..
Or she isn't ready, how long has she been seperated?
The best way to get to a women when in doubt is to be her friend, but not a fake friend cause she'll know.. you have to be genuine...

 

[Loginthesand]

Sorry but i have to dissagree with fishmamma. the nice friend always comes in second. and from the sounds off it she already thinks your a friend and therefore not interested, Sorry to say.