fishmamma;4949135; said:
True that. Suppress your sexual urges, and just be her friend. If she is interested in more than a friendship, she will let you know. Don't over-analyze her actions or her words. Just take what she says, for what she says.
Some ladies like to communicate their feelings indirectly by giving subtle hints about the way they feel instead of just saying it. Stay away from these. Later on in life, she will not have learned how to communicate properly, and it will cause many communication issues. I can't tell you how many women I have known through-out my life that hide their feelings and rely on hints to express their feelings.....It sucks trying to figure out the impossible "woman riddles" they throw out during the entire relationship. Remember that even though you think you know this girl, you probably don't. People in general do not normally show their true colors until they are tired of covering them up.
And the nice friend does come in second some times, but normally its better that way if that's the way it works out. The girl that ends up with the butthole rude guy usually ends up in divorce, and then she goes back to whichever nice friend is there. By that time, she'll either be experienced in relationships and know better for next go-round(plus she'll have half of the guy's money from the last marriage), or she will marry and divorce another butthole rude guy until she learns. Many women I know have been through this cycle, and I hate to say that most of them have repeated their same mistakes. Stay away from them. Be the nice friend.
