I would have liked to read the long reply, I've done the same thing myself, and I know how frustrating that is. I got all the pics from a thread I created last year when I first got the fish, all those pics were added to that thread to demonstrate what they might turn out as.
I realize that I've been fairly defensive at times throughout this thread and I appreciate your continued posting. I am interested in learning more about these breeds and ultimately ID'ing what my fish are. It's a little tough though when so many threads turn into big arguments over what kind of fish people have. The odds are that these are not pure blood synspilums, at least that's what I gather from what you've told me.
I sometimes get the feeling that some people only think fish are nice if you bought them from an expensive breeder or as F0. I'm sure that's not what you think. Sometimes on here, fish that are bought at a pet store get automatically labeled as hybrids or as lesser quality just because they weren't bought at an ACA auction or as wild caught. (I'm just trying to explain why I'm so defensive of these fish.)