How would you feel if you where given a puppy for xmas? imo no pet, particularly something that will need the care and attention rays need should be bought in this manner. I would however suggest doing the research that you are.. source a breeder, CB fish are heartier in general... and present him with the option..If he wants a ray he will be all over it, and it will also show you care about the animals and arent just trying to make him happy. It will also give the opportunity to go threw the process with him of picking a fish ect... and i think most the guys around here would love a fiance/wife whos involved at least a little bit in the hobby. I know my husband likes picking out fish with me ect, even though im the one passionate about them he enjoys being apart of it.
my husband bought me a birthday present 2 yrs ago that hes happy to say is "ours" i bugged him for weeks... so he said " are you sure? " then told me the ship date the next day. This was after discuessing what future tank size wede need ect...