Nic;3217456; said:so obviously you dont know what i was gonna say.... now go do some serious large water changes... flush the tank to make sure there is no trace of it left...
I knew what you were going to say. Fairly obvious secret ingredient.
I'm so sorry about your female; that is terrible news.
I'm glad to hear that they are all active. If you are still having trouble with a cycle, try adding media from another tank as well as possibly using something that supplements bio. Some zeolite or turbostart would probably help with the ammonia situation; the zeo for the short term, the turbo for the long term.