if i tell her the truth granpa gonna kill me ( not literly but still ) noone wants her to know as of right now. but i want her to now but dont in a way. i odnt now what i should do as o fnow tho.
update on my mom and sad one
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o and my fish are swimming and lookin at the door alot so maybe thay understand whas goin on better then us. and my dogs they sleep with my mom more often and so they muct now whas goin on more then us.
WOW I am truely sorry CB. I have been in the same spot as only it was my gramps. He died just a year ago. He died from many things cancer, anurisms, basically anything you think of he had. We were going to put him in Hospice but didn't have the money to spend so he died in a hospital. Even if someone told him what was wrong with him he said, No I am healthy as a horse don't tell me how I am I know how I am doing. He died misreable which is ashame. Although we didn't tell my grams what was going on because we were afraid she might have a heart attack or go off the deep end. All we told her was he wasn't doing well and probably not going to get better. Of course she would have some type of problem since she is 98 years old right now and still goin strong ( nock on wood). I know it's hard knowing someone is going to die and you can't tell them or do anything about it. I wish your family the best of luck from the heart. As long as you guys stay together you guys can be there for one another. This extremely important because my family broke up after this now no one talks to each other or sees each other. It's really ashame but I can't do anything about it. Tell your mom I hope she gets well.
now my mind is brushing past all teh good times we had while im listening to a song called "take a drink by quiet drive" and now im getting deeper sadness
Im really sorry to hear what you are going through and wish you the best. My father was sick for years and the thing I think I miss the most is being able to talk to him. She may not be able to get around much anymore but the time you spend together just talking and sharing thoughts and memories mean the most.
