Convict, you hang in there , young Man! Your mom is preparing her onwards journey and you just need to be by her side and let her know you love her. Love her very much.
Now for her sake, if you allow an old friends advice, do not waste time about her difficulties in rhe toilet and all..let her dignity stay in place..we all know and understand how it is...you only have to tell us about it if YOU feel you need it.
we are your friends. You have frienbds all over the world, you see? Me, I am in Portugal, so far away, and I think of you and your mom, often. So you hang o in there..you're her support. We are here for you.