update on my mom and sad one

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Keep us up to date CB, and tell her that MFK is pulling for her.
 
Damnit I feel for you. Hang strong, life can really blow at times.
 
Wow. I can't even to begin to imagine what you are going through. I don't know if you decided to tell her what the doctor said or not. My suggestion would be to not. It wont change anything for the better. If she thinks she is getting better, let her keep up the positive thinking. Spend as much time with her as possible. Nothing else matters. My grandfather died 10 years ago. The thought that I didn't spend enough time with him in the last few months is something that still haunts me. I had a new girlfriend at the time, so I was spending all my time with her. Now, she is my wife. I have spent plenty of time with her, and now looking back, I see that I wasted the time that I could have spent with him. I don't want the same thing to happen to you. Every moment is precious. Stay strong. She needs you. Don't let her see you down. Keep her happy and let her know how much you love her. Thats what will make you a hero.
 
frnchjeep;1036691; said:
Wow. I can't even to begin to imagine what you are going through. I don't know if you decided to tell her what the doctor said or not. My suggestion would be to not. It wont change anything for the better. If she thinks she is getting better, let her keep up the positive thinking. Spend as much time with her as possible. Nothing else matters. My grandfather died 10 years ago. The thought that I didn't spend enough time with him in the last few months is something that still haunts me. I had a new girlfriend at the time, so I was spending all my time with her. Now, she is my wife. I have spent plenty of time with her, and now looking back, I see that I wasted the time that I could have spent with him. I don't want the same thing to happen to you. Every moment is precious. Stay strong. She needs you. Don't let her see you down. Keep her happy and let her know how much you love her. Thats what will make you a hero.
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thanks and what did ur grandad have???
 
convict_breeder;1036697; said:
thanks and what did ur grandad have???
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He was diabetic. As a result (I'm not sure how), he got frostbite on his foot. The amputated about half of his foot. It wouldn't heel right. It got infected. He was in the hospital for a couple months. He got pnemonia. Then he got a blood clot that they missed. So it was kind of a combination of things.

Also, as a side note, I have had cancer. I have made a full recovery. I know about some of the stuff your mom is going through. If you have any questions, feel free to ask. You can pm me at any time if you like.
 
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