S skjl47 In regard to your earlier comment (did not want to include a lenghty quote here) I absolutely agree with your stance of having no children. I don't want any either. The way I see it, having no children not only allows to have a more free, financially easy lifestyle, but also to have less of a guilty conscience to the world itself.
For example: Yes, I might eat meat and I might (hopefully one day) drive a fast car that doesn't get too many MPG but at least I'm not putting 2 more people in the world who, in turn, will ruin the planet by eating meat and driving cars etc.
Bit of a whacky explanation but I hope you see what I mean.
P.S I'm still young so I could change my mind about having children but right now I am adamant I want none.[/QUOTE]
Hello; May I suggest the use of some form of birth control that is reversible and not the vasectomy. I understand that views change so a permanent "fix" is a big step. I was still married to my first wife when I decided to take the permanent fix. She agreed about the no children view. A few years later we divorced and I lost touch, so I do not know if she had children or not.
I am 69 years old and first married at the age of 19. If my first wife and I started having children right away we could possibly have great grandchildren by now. There is some fallacy to this logic even tho I find it appealing. The biggest problem is that so many others have had more than the one child per person or two per couple of the ZPG (zero population growth) idea.
Had all adopted this back in the early 1970's the human population likely would have stabilized. As we know things did not work out that way and the human population has swelled. So the reality seems to be than whatever environmental benefits gained from an individual who does not have children is being more than offset by the others who have more than the ZPG.
There are still the real benefits to an individual with no children in other ways. Being a childless individual seems unlikely to solve the human population issue, but it does not add to the problem either. As I have stated, I do not have sleepless nights from worry about the children and grandchildren that do not exist. I will never be a parent watching a child go hungry or worse. The children I do not have are also not taking food from those who exist and need it now.
You are correct in that being childless can give you a better personal lifestyle. When I see a newborn it makes me think of a Ferrari car. I may be wrong but my guess is that some parents could buy a Ferrari with what the cost of a child can be.