Thanks folks, it has a long way to go and I will do my best to keep on track with the monthly updates. I am pretty happy with the photo quality of those shots compared to that of my original post but I will feel like I can do better. I just don't know much about photography yet.
Anyhow, the skinny leaf plant is Java fern but the needle leave variety. I find they grow faster then the standard Java fern and the leaves look healthier than std Java fern for me.
The sand is caribsea moonlight sand. Very fine white sand. I don't have a thick layer as this stuff can become compacted easily.