I dont want to grieve because I know he wouldn't want me too, but its all I can think about right now, I keep looking out my window hoping he'll pull up but I guess I just didn't do enough to stop this from happening.
What do I do now?
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no one can ever know what he was going through.
in his case, it must have been bad. much worse than most of us can imagine.
dont let your beliefs deny you comfort. if he was a good person, you know that he was a good person.
sometimes good people are subjected to horrible things.
in his case, it must have been bad. much worse than most of us can imagine.
dont let your beliefs deny you comfort. if he was a good person, you know that he was a good person.
sometimes good people are subjected to horrible things.
i am very sorry for the loss of your friend..it is always difficult for the ones left behind because they're are always questions and no answers.. may he rest in peace ..
alot of times you could have all the time in the world and not be able to stop someone this is not your fault let things be, find comfort in knowing you are the type of person who would've done all they could you were the best friend you could be
Grieve, if you have to.
But think that you were one of those friends that was friend enough to discuss his drug issue with him.
That's a friend in my book.
But think that you were one of those friends that was friend enough to discuss his drug issue with him.
That's a friend in my book.
I would have stopped it somehow called his brother or mom or dad. He lived with his parents and I would have told them, I would have stopped it somehow some way. I'm trying to find peace for myself now.
scubasteve06;2229711; said:
Of course you would have stopped it...anybody would have..but how can you stop something you were not aware of... this is the ultimate step he took all by himself.. theres not much anyone can do under these circumstances.. just help support the rest of his family.. his mom, dad etc... you will find peace in time... let yourself have time..
I feel so bad for his two year old son though. I know he is asking where's daddy where's daddy. How do you explain that? If only I maybe had iterated a little more to call if he needed anything this wouldn't of happened I just can't quit beating my self up. I just want him to come striding up like he always did with a 12 pack in hand smiling happy as a clam. Damn what is a man to do!!!!!!!!!!
