What Offends You?

[skjl47]

I'm gonna stop now because he actually infuriates me

hello; I guess what you can do will depend on some legal stuff and some personal stuff. If you have a lease, pay all the rent and have such in your name then you can ask him to leave. If you are on legal ground and he does not leave then call the law, just be sure you have the legal status. If he pays some of the rent and you cannot afford the place without him that is another thing.
Even if you have the legal right to throw him out the other thing is how you feel about tossing him out. Me, I would never have had him in in the first place. My father was very obese and I learned from dealing with him. Part of the way such folks act is from them being so big. They are in effect handicapped and will use anyone around them because they cannot do for themselves. My father was often cross and hateful and I guess it was because of his weight. Anyway my suggestion is to get rid of him as it will not get any better.
My neighbor had a very big cousin stay with him. The guy was so big he broke the floor of a shower. Guess who had to pay for the fix.

 

[Kittiee Katt]

hello; I guess what you can do will depend on some legal stuff and some personal stuff. If you have a lease, pay all the rent and have such in your name then you can ask him to leave. If you are on legal ground and he does not leave then call the law, just be sure you have the legal status. If he pays some of the rent and you cannot afford the place without him that is another thing.
Even if you have the legal right to throw him out the other thing is how you feel about tossing him out. Me, I would never have had him in in the first place. My father was very obese and I learned from dealing with him. Part of the way such folks act is from them being so big. They are in effect handicapped and will use anyone around them because they cannot do for themselves. My father was often cross and hateful and I guess it was because of his weight. Anyway my suggestion is to get rid of him as it will not get any better.
My neighbor had a very big cousin stay with him. The guy was so big he broke the floor of a shower. Guess who had to pay for the fix.

I can't kick him out unfortunately. If anyone kicks him out it has to be my housemate Ty as technically it's his dads house. And Ty won't kick him out without "giving him a chance" which I'm all for, but how many chances is enough, you know? He leaves poop on the toilet seat and doesn't wipe it off, he won't help tidy the house, doesn't wipe the shower when he's done, he won't cook his own food he expects Ty to do it for him, hell he won't even get his own board money out! Ty has to go get that out for him too! Hes so lazy and selfish and inconsiderate and it drives me up the bloody wall!

Okay, I'll stop. I know I've said it before but I'll actually stop now. I have to stop. I don't want to dislike the guy because I hardly know him... But he isn't making it easy to like him.

But overall I'd rather live with a guy I don't like than be homeless again so I'll put up with it either way I guess.


Also, sorry for being a pain and wasting half a thread with my trivial bullcrap.. I do apologize.

 

[krichardson]

Also, sorry for being a pain and wasting half a thread with my trivial bullcrap.. I do apologize.

No apologies needed,your input was certainly interesting.I'm sorry you have to put up with such a troglodyte!

 

[krichardson]

I don't see how anyone can like a guy who poops on the toilet and leaves it for someone else to come along and enjoy.He needs a boot up his butt......sideways.

 

[MrsE88]

I can't kick him out unfortunately. If anyone kicks him out it has to be my housemate Ty as technically it's his dads house. And Ty won't kick him out without "giving him a chance" which I'm all for, but how many chances is enough, you know? He leaves poop on the toilet seat and doesn't wipe it off, he won't help tidy the house, doesn't wipe the shower when he's done, he won't cook his own food he expects Ty to do it for him, hell he won't even get his own board money out! Ty has to go get that out for him too! Hes so lazy and selfish and inconsiderate and it drives me up the bloody wall!

Okay, I'll stop. I know I've said it before but I'll actually stop now. I have to stop. I don't want to dislike the guy because I hardly know him... But he isn't making it easy to like him.

But overall I'd rather live with a guy I don't like than be homeless again so I'll put up with it either way I guess.


Also, sorry for being a pain and wasting half a thread with my trivial bullcrap.. I do apologize.

Dang, that is a tough situation. I’m sorry. Maybe a place of your own will be in the not so far off future.

 

[skjl47]

Hes so lazy and selfish and inconsiderate and it drives me up the bloody wall!

hello; My take is being lazy, selfish and inconsiderate is part of the way a person gets so fat.

I don't see how anyone can like a guy who poops on the toilet and leaves it for someone else to come along and enjoy. He needs a boot up his butt......sideways.

hello; Some of it is the way the guy just naturally is but also some is from being so fat. Unless you some how are being forced to do chores my plan would be to ignore his requests. Do not be an enabler in one sense. Really obese people often have an enabler or few around as they usually can not get along on their own.

Oh the toilet thing is part of being so big. My take is they get to where they just do not have room to move like more normal sized people. (Note- I would also hazard a guess that he smells like old a##. Probably cannot reach around enough to be able to wipe good. Been around that.)

Bad spot you are in. Hope for you finding a better spot to live.

 

[Irecruitfish]

I'm offended that people get offended that I don't like the same food as them! Example: At a friend's house for a BBQ and a lot of the people there including the host like spicy food(I don't). They notice I don't touch any of the spicy chicken and say how can you not like the flavor and spice. I say why would like something that disturbs my pallette.

Anyway there is some back and forth which I found useless on their part. Not everyone likes what you like. Period.

 

[FMA4ME]

I'm offended that people get offended that I don't like the same food as them! Example: At a friend's house for a BBQ and a lot of the people there including the host like spicy food(I don't). They notice I don't touch any of the spicy chicken and say how can you not like the flavor and spice. I say why would like something that disturbs my pallette.

Anyway there is some back and forth which I found useless on their part. Not everyone likes what you like. Period.

THANK YOU!!!! X1000

 

[Deadliestviper7]

Do the same to his bed see if he laughs then

A little sulfuric acid on the the post and kaploosh! The Fat man breaks his bed!

 

[Deadliestviper7]

Get his attention with some cake, throw the cake out the door, then lock it after he goes after it and change the locks .

Make a pit trap with sharpened stakes at the bottom, I mean if it can work for large animals like mammoths, it should work for Walrus-Man.