what would you do if

[Neervana]

there are underlying questions, have you and the friend ever "hooked up"?
does he talk about you constantly? was there ever a time where you even just went out on a date?
If you were always a completely platonic friend then you should do the mature thing, sit her down and try to work out whats going on. There is no reason why you should have to stop being friends with someone because the girlfriend doesn't like you, if you have never done anything to make her not like you then you should talk with both the BF (boyfriend/ bestfriend) and the GF should be mature enough to handle him having platonic girlfriends, it sounds like a trust issue (i've had a few) and thats something they need to work out between them as well.

nope...i don't date my friends so that's never been a problem between us. i think she's insecure...i asked him if i should say something to her, reassure her that there's nothing going on...but he said no. and he says if i text or call she will immediately grab his phone and go through everything...

 

[Citrinellus]

Sorry for derailing, back to the op... I would give your friend some space. It seems like more a problem he has to fix with his girlfriend. She has some security and trust issues with him.

 

[ryeguy28]

dude if my gf took my phone from me and checked my text i would freak

i would dump her ***

 

[Neervana]

dude if my gf took my phone from me and checked my text i would freak

i would dump her ***

yeah..and she knows im with someone...so i dont get why she's still being like this..

 

[gangster]

let him know nicely that his gf is crazy and he is wasting his time. unless he wants to pay for her crazy girl pills in the future. If he's still alive.

 

[Neervana]

let him know nicely that his gf is crazy and he is wasting his time. unless he wants to pay for her crazy girl pills in the future. If he's still alive.

what surprised me is that he would actually let a girl or anyone control him that much and tell him who he can or cant talk to...

 

[gangster]

someone has trust issues in that relationship....i wonder why?

 

[Otolith]

what surprised me is that he would actually let a girl or anyone control him that much and tell him who he can or cant talk to...

He's p***y whooped. Sounds like you've lost your friend until he grows some nads or they break up. Its prob because you're pretty and someone he relates to and that threatens her b/c she's psycho. Maybe you all could go on a double date, seeing you with your significant other could squelch some of her possessiveness?

 

[Plec123]

no hey wait


she hates you cause you hate bacon

You realize that this is a serious situation right?

Neer, just ask her what her problem is. Then tell yer friend to man up and tell her how he feels.

 

[dragonfish18]

talk to yer friend thats a guy and take him to talk to his gf since he dosent have the balls to do it him self. tell her (the gf) whats up then see a lil bit of her perspective to be fair.
and youll probly b able to handle this like reasonable people. if not it gives u all the right reasons to go bad on her...

im not implying u do something but at lease in the back of her head she knows that u was talking reasonably and that she over reacting jus my suggestion GL