Why should a girl ask you out? girls like guys that take charge and speak up.
When i was young and in highscool i was painfully shy, being shy you miss out on allot, in regards to the ladies you have to have the guts to talk to them. The first girlfriend i had was in highschool, i was shy and got my friend to go over to her and tell her i liked her, she then came up to me and asked me out.
After that i had plenty of offers, girls asking me out and became popular but i was still quite shy but not as bad and it was only when i graduated i decided its time to grow a pair and put that childish shyness behind me and ive never looked back.
Life and opportunities pass shy people by, in life you have to stand tall and grab life by the balls so to speak. make the most of every oportunity.
My first test was when i was at a zoo( steve irwins zoo) and saw a cute japanese girl looking at me, i smiled and she smiled back, i walked over to her and just talked...
hi, how you doin? im darren(she said her name) how are you liking the zoo? yadda yadda yadda can i have your n umber etc. I cant remeber what i actaly said but it turned out she was on holiday and so she gave me her email address and we still keep in touch.
That was the first step for me and ive never had trouble asking woman out since, sometimes they do ask me out but really woman respect a guy that makes the moves.
just my 2c-
+1. Well-stated Chloe!
...but i always win!
You'll regret it especially if the girl you like may turn out to be someone you don't really want.
