I hear ya on the sexual monophorphism as adults but I know I read somewhere online that males tend to grow faster than females when young. Just trying to find some a link there...Nope, I did not have them long enough to verify who could lay eggs and who could fertilize. Oscars are sexually monomorphic, meaning both sexes look the same, no breeding dress, no size difference. If it were a simple size difference, then folks would have been able to reliably figure out the sex of the oscars within the past 70 years of them being bred for the aquarium.