Complete understand. My wife has been pissed for some time about having two tanks in our room. She says she feels like she is living in a fish store. So I broke down my 40b that was under my 75g. How this makes more room I dont know but anyways. I am upgrading my kids goldfish tank to the 40b that I took down and putting the 20gallon away. This was acceptable to my wife. But she had the nerve to request we put a "chocolate" colored gold fish in the tank. I told her she hated my hobby she doesn't get to decided lol. I hate the brown gold fish but I will probably cave because I do love her.
Wait.... Pause the movie to do a water change? What?
I would be mad too.
LOLwife wanted a 75g, i says ok, she stocked it with what every she wanted, i says ok, I cleaned the tank, water changed the tank, fed the fish. what does she say down the line? well its really not my tank, I say you picked the fish, you did the decor, why is it not your tank. well i only did it to be part of your hobby. week later, her fish gone. tank cleaned up and sporting a nice JD male. sense then she does not mess with my fish or comment, I do not crochet? and she does not keep fish.
Did her apartment not have running water? LOLAny woman that will hold your "thing" while you do aquarium maintenance is worth keeping happy. By the way, props for being able to do aquarium maintenance while she's holding your "thing"! Before we got married, I set up a tank in my wife's apartment with a leopoldi stingray. I lugged buckets of water, equipment, and food twice a week to her apartment, and then worked on the tank for 2 hours while she watched tv. A year later we got married and I got to move the stingray into my tank. :>)
Get a chocolate colored goldfish put it in the tank then when she smiles and says thankyou throw a red belly piranha in haha jkComplete understand. My wife has been pissed for some time about having two tanks in our room. She says she feels like she is living in a fish store. So I broke down my 40b that was under my 75g. How this makes more room I dont know but anyways. I am upgrading my kids goldfish tank to the 40b that I took down and putting the 20gallon away. This was acceptable to my wife. But she had the nerve to request we put a "chocolate" colored gold fish in the tank. I told her she hated my hobby she doesn't get to decided lol. I hate the brown gold fish but I will probably cave because I do love her.