worst month ever....

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benzjamin13;1340428; said:
Just try to stay focused on what's important. I know it may be difficult, but like Li said...just take it one day at a time. Every time I have to re-focus myself, I think of what I want to accomplish and then start off with the smallest and the most simple part of that goal. You say your kids are acting up, so maybe spend more time with them and just start off simple like saying good night to them every night. Everything will be okay.
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I am certainly trying to give them as much attention as I can, and trying to keep routines as similar as possible, it does make things sound easier to accomplish when you look at it as little steps at a time instead of one huge thing though...thanks :)
 
its ok man venting helps alot..i went threw the same type of **** ..a few months ago..and the people on this forum helped so much..i thnk we need liz..
 
when my parents divorced they had no idea that later in life they become freinds again and both remary to ppl that were much more matched.My step dad has a son and they had me and my sis,i 10 and her 5.We did not understand all the details of it until we started growing up.Mom stayed very true to us,she kept other very positive ppl in our lives.Dad took us on weekends and 1 day a week.My father passed in a crash 4 years ago so im happy to here you are ok from yours,and your kids still have you.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,You cant imagine what the future will bring,stay strong,keep positive and moral ppl in your lifes,better yourselves each day step by step and know that life gets crazy.I had everything taken from me within the last 4 years but ive grown so freakin strong through it,now its up to me to man up and keep going forward.Dont be ashamed to let out the emotions.Im 32 now and have a good cry now and then.ssshhhhhhhh,dont tell anyone.Best wishes to you guys.They will never forget the fun you share with them,my mom is like a best freind now and i thank her all the time for staying true.God bless.
 
Well...here's a story I'm willing to tell on MFK to lighten things up...

October was a pretty bad month for me:

My close friend wanted to throw a surprise party for her girlfriend and I said cool as long as it was small. Either loud music or alcohol, but not both since it was a Monday and I didn't want cops knocking at the door to find drunken idiots all over the place and so on. Yeah...things didn't go according to the plan. 10 people became 40 people and some I didn't care for. There was loud music and alcohol. Drunked idiots puking. The person I didn't care for was making a comment about stealing some stuff from my house...dumb@$$

Next was the fires...one friend had to evacuate her house and her Uncle and brother were stuck at the house. And the fire was literally 2 mile from my house and almost burned down my work..which really wouldn't be so bad. :grinno:

Then on a 3 day noticed, my parents told me that my cousin was going to move into my house. Not that he's a bad guy. I've known him all my life of course, but he had his life and I had mine. I actually haven't seen him for 2 years until he moved in with me and my other roommate. And being Asian...I have to respect my elders. And he's talking about rearranging my whole house...even my room!

Then if that wasn't stressfull enough, I started bleeding...and I'm not a girl. 3 days straight before I decided that I HAVE to see a doctor. Now during this time, I switched doctors, cuz my little Asian doctor with little Asian hands sucked when it came to helping me with my shoulder problems, so I wanted a doctor that will tell me more than "Just lay off the gym and take IB Profen" So I've never met my doctor yet. And our first encounter was going to be kinda intimate:uhoh: So I was nervous as hell. I go in the doctor's office and the nurse hands me the sheet. As I'm undressing, I hear, "Doctor...should I get the anus scope?" WTH is that?! She brings in this thing that looks like a mag light! I'm petrefied! I meet my doctor for the first time and thanked God that he was a short little Indian guy. Then I saw his fingers...they must've gotten ET's hands from looking at this guys fingers! He hand long fingers! AAARGH! Lucky for me that the doctor wanted me to do some blood work before anything and he said I seemed normal and he asked about my diet and stress and we determined that it was me taking Bayer on an empty stomache for my headaches. But then he's like I can still check your rectum as he's doing a circular motion with his fingers...obviously, I graciously declined.

Then I find out that this girl that I've like for awhile...well...she had a girlfriend for about a year.

Taking myself out of the picture...I can say if it wasn't me...this was funny. Hoped this story lightens you up a bit.
 
ddyerfamily;1340494; said:
Some times A good Laugh is called for.....

Hope you feel Better :D
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OMG that third pic is freaking hilarious! :ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL:
 
jason longboard;1340520; said:
when my parents divorced they had no idea that later in life they become freinds again and both remary to ppl that were much more matched.My step dad has a son and they had me and my sis,i 10 and her 5.We did not understand all the details of it until we started growing up.Mom stayed very true to us,she kept other very positive ppl in our lives.Dad took us on weekends and 1 day a week.My father passed in a crash 4 years ago so im happy to here you are ok from yours,and your kids still have you.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,You cant imagine what the future will bring,stay strong,keep positive and moral ppl in your lifes,better yourselves each day step by step and know that life gets crazy.I had everything taken from me within the last 4 years but ive grown so freakin strong through it,now its up to me to man up and keep going forward.Dont be ashamed to let out the emotions.Im 32 now and have a good cry now and then.ssshhhhhhhh,dont tell anyone.Best wishes to you guys.They will never forget the fun you share with them,my mom is like a best freind now and i thank her all the time for staying true.God bless.
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hope my kids can feel the same way about me when they are older, thanks for the support!
 
dovii88;1340488; said:
its ok man venting helps alot..i went threw the same type of **** ..a few months ago..and the people on this forum helped so much..i thnk we need liz..
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you're right, everyone on this forum is great...and liz always has kind words to say about just about every situation, hope things are going better for you now...
 
benzjamin13;1340531; said:
Well...here's a story I'm willing to tell on MFK to lighten things up...

October was a pretty bad month for me:

My close friend wanted to throw a surprise party for her girlfriend and I said cool as long as it was small. Either loud music or alcohol, but not both since it was a Monday and I didn't want cops knocking at the door to find drunken idiots all over the place and so on. Yeah...things didn't go according to the plan. 10 people became 40 people and some I didn't care for. There was loud music and alcohol. Drunked idiots puking. The person I didn't care for was making a comment about stealing some stuff from my house...dumb@$$

Next was the fires...one friend had to evacuate her house and her Uncle and brother were stuck at the house. And the fire was literally 2 mile from my house and almost burned down my work..which really wouldn't be so bad. :grinno:

Then on a 3 day noticed, my parents told me that my cousin was going to move into my house. Not that he's a bad guy. I've known him all my life of course, but he had his life and I had mine. I actually haven't seen him for 2 years until he moved in with me and my other roommate. And being Asian...I have to respect my elders. And he's talking about rearranging my whole house...even my room!

Then if that wasn't stressfull enough, I started bleeding...and I'm not a girl. 3 days straight before I decided that I HAVE to see a doctor. Now during this time, I switched doctors, cuz my little Asian doctor with little Asian hands sucked when it came to helping me with my shoulder problems, so I wanted a doctor that will tell me more than "Just lay off the gym and take IB Profen" So I've never met my doctor yet. And our first encounter was going to be kinda intimate:uhoh: So I was nervous as hell. I go in the doctor's office and the nurse hands me the sheet. As I'm undressing, I hear, "Doctor...should I get the anus scope?" WTH is that?! She brings in this thing that looks like a mag light! I'm petrefied! I meet my doctor for the first time and thanked God that he was a short little Indian guy. Then I saw his fingers...they must've gotten ET's hands from looking at this guys fingers! He hand long fingers! AAARGH! Lucky for me that the doctor wanted me to do some blood work before anything and he said I seemed normal and he asked about my diet and stress and we determined that it was me taking Bayer on an empty stomache for my headaches. But then he's like I can still check your rectum as he's doing a circular motion with his fingers...obviously, I graciously declined.

Then I find out that this girl that I've like for awhile...well...she had a girlfriend for about a year.

Taking myself out of the picture...I can say if it wasn't me...this was funny. Hoped this story lightens you up a bit.
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The doctor thing was great, I can imagine if it was me it wouldn't have been so great, but man, to hear about it...:ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL:
 
take it easy, i will be a father in 6 months,:D so i dont know how to help you, but i believe that everything will be better day by day, best wishes.:thumbsup:
 
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