Wow. Im sick of being horribly depressed.

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The best way to get over a girlfriend is to get another one. That is actually bad advise but it works. Also, the more you focus on this last one, the harder it will be to move on. Only you can give her the power to hurt you, and only you have the power to make it stop. Part of life is learning to move on, and that is what you are going to have to do.

To get over the depression, stay active, eat at least one good meal each day, and do something you enjoy daily. Surround yourself with other people as long as they do not do anything to remind you of her. Tell your friends that conversation about her is off limits.

Lastly, if you feel you need professional help, talk to your parents about this. Tell them you want to talk to a counselor. If they brush it off, tell them you are considering suicide. That will be enough to let them know you are serious. If worse comes to worse, there are suicide hotlines in every area, and they will put you in touch with professionals that will not charge you to see them.

Good luck
 
do you mind me asking how old you are? I've had my heart ripped out, then stomped on, chewed and spat back out on a plate for me, yeah it did suck. I truely thought she was the one. Felt like i hit rock bottom. But the only place to go once you've hit rock bottom is up. Its been 4 years, i've had anoter gf since then and have met loads of other girls. Go find your buddies, go out, get pissed, forget about it. Every holes a goal ;)
 
Oh, you are too young to be suffering like this. Please do me a favor and talk to your parents. The best solution for this is to go to a COUNSELOR. I have suffered with depression for 20 years. And I recently have been diagnosed Bipolar. I have to go see a psychiatrist to even out my meds. But, they do help. A counselor will help you get through this heartache and move on. She is probably also young, that is why she is listening to what everyone else is saying and not listening to the truth. Do whats right and move on with the help of a counselor.
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CHOMPERS;583922; said:
The best way to get over a girlfriend is to get another one. That is actually bad advise but it works. Also, the more you focus on this last one, the harder it will be to move on. Only you can give her the power to hurt you, and only you have the power to make it stop. Part of life is learning to move on, and that is what you are going to have to do.

To get over the depression, stay active, eat at least one good meal each day, and do something you enjoy daily. Surround yourself with other people as long as they do not do anything to remind you of her. Tell your friends that conversation about her is off limits.

Lastly, if you feel you need professional help, talk to your parents about this. Tell them you want to talk to a counselor. If they brush it off, tell them you are considering suicide. That will be enough to let them know you are serious. If worse comes to worse, there are suicide hotlines in every area, and they will put you in touch with professionals that will not charge you to see them.

Good luck
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Very well said CHOMPERS, there is so much truth in everything you said. Might i add that pondering the idea of suicide is a pretty good sign that you need proffesional help. Good luck and stay strong!
 
i dont believe in love...
but the best bet is to just move on...

like oddballer said.. focus on what you have....
 
Grt involved with sports............does not even have to be team sports.........I mt bike when i get pissed.....I get so involved with the ride that i forget about all the other crap going on............Go surfing, jogging, skateboarding, lift weights, etc, just stay active, and good luck:)
 
when im pissed i go play football with friends...
 
You're too young to sit and be like this over a girl. Chances are that it woulnt even work long term.........because you're young.
Get out, focus on what you have, and as much as you might like her........forget her. It takes 2 to tango. If both people arent committed you might as well forget about it and move on.

If you need to BS with someone pm me. I'm good at BSing.


Chin up man, you've got a lot of living to do.
 
Do whatever makes you happy. Get involved in whatever hobby you have big time. Also go online and look at personal ads, look at all the other fish in the sea. Also as said meet someone else. But go in with the right attitude, don't go in depressed.
 
depression can happen to anyone at anytime, could have nothing to do with her, my wife is a therapist at the mental health center, every city has one, you can call them no charge and annonomysly, look in the phone book under mental health or crisis center. or just go to http://www.local.com
 
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