i watch them daily for 6-7 hours. if they do not have personality then how can you have some gars be able to be mixed with some fish and others of the same sp. not? others have stronger instincts? i know fish get only food, live and sex, but they have differences in how they go about it.
foolish enough to leave them together long enough, i'll give you that because i had my gut tell me to move them and i couldn't sell them for $70 after i paid $150 for them. thats what i was offered by a few lfs around here. i was not going to put them on craigslist and i was looking for the best way to ship them so they didn't die in transit before i put them up for sale here. foolish, but with strong reasoning behind it. alot of people around me will spend alot of money on fish just to say "i have a fish worth this much" they dont know anything about it, but they will do it. so i save my fish from that. just happened that i ran out of time.
i was pissed at myself and just because a lot of people post it didn't work for me doesn't me i can't try. it also gives no one the right to laugh at it when it fails. site aros and gars, many have posted their fails with them, but they work for me. i dont think there are fish psychologists that is dumb, but fish do act differently from others in the same sp. so you can't say they are all 100% the same as you are.