My girl thought I was obsessed at first. Now she's totally in love with the hobby. It's to the point now that I can't even sell a fish without permission. I have a ridiculous crooked face blood parrot named muffins that I'll have to keep for life. Once they get named, there's no Hope of ever getting rid of them. The bright side... She makes/has even more money than I do. Which means more tanks/ponds and more fish at our homes. Next she wants a MBU :-D