I have never been confuse as I am now. Not only I got divided opinion, I also got photos which confused me even more.
@pops says it is a male, while he post video link of two females just the same as mine. In that case I would say mine is female.
@oriqua says it is a female, while 1st photo is similar to mine (around head) except that fish on photo has much more body colour then mine; on 2nd photo left fish (smaller one) looks just like mine; 3rd photo I could't say it has much body color; 4th photo looks like 1st where fish has more body colour then mine but head is similar to mine.
@ehh photo you gave of young male, also does not show significant body colour. But I can see it does not have any bearding colour except around eyes.
And in some cases I could easily say it is different species - in some cases JD's are much more brownish compare to mine which body is much more black compare to other.