I can't believe the bodybuilder topic got thrown into this. I'm an ex-competitive bodybuilder (not physique). I did it for 4 years. Now I just workout to stay in shape. That's the reason my name is "Big Jay" I currently am 230 lbs and pretty much stay at that year round. Anyway, that's besides the point.
My take on it is this: You should/shouldn't do anything for anyone but yourself.
Bodybuilding, fish keeping, comic books, whatever. Own who you are and don't be afraid of it. I am as eclectic as they come:
- Offshore fisherman
- Hunter
- Licensed captain
- Fishkeeper
- Diver
- Bodybuilder (no longer compete)
- Work as a financial advisor
People tell me all the time I am one of the most interesting people they've met. I'm not in the clubs at a VIP table dancing on couches, or taking shirtless selfies on instagram, or trying to hangout with the "cool crowd."
Never do something to get girls, or to be popular, etc. You'll see that when you get older people don't care as much about being "popular." They appreciate who you are as a person.