Key word there is
"US".
Too many people L.O.V.E., love, this hobby way too much to share it with a significant other.
You see posts all the time where somebody
wants to hang/shoot/torture/mame their Boyfriend/Girlfriend/Mom/Dad/brother/sister, or what ever, for the silliest things that happen when they trust a feeding or something while they are away. I'm afraid anybody they ever find, that they want to share their beloved hobby with, will fall terribly short...
The two of you both share a common interest and neither of you have laid claim to the hobby as "MINE". There is most definitely a wide array of subjects that fishkeeping requires,
plenty for both of you to "sink your teeth" into
By sharing the work and the rewards, it sounds like the two of you are a good team, and in this day and age that is a GREAT thing!! It shows in the progression of your hardware.
Most people deem us absolutely "sick with it".
The first time they see 100+ gallons they know we are totally insane.
The two of you have just corralled your landlords car with a
"Portable 600 gallon Monster",
Put together a 100 piece PVC 3-D Jigsaw,
Un-bagged 1/4 ton of sand,
and found the low spot in a Flooded garage!!...
And I see positive energy, and not a hint negativity,
Just smiles and poses!!
Good Job you two,
and I also, am looking forward to seeing your progress...
Keep on taking your time and enjoy every minute of it, I know I would.