Kashif314
. . . I didn't join this forum for fun or trolling.
I'm sorry you got dogpiled.
Many folks come here with lots of questions, looking for easy answers.
They rarely ask the right questions or ask in a meaningful way.
Most of the questions people ask here don't
have specific answers.
90% of the time questioners are asked to provide more specific data. If they didn't know enough to give that data first , it is a sign to us that, "Here is a novice, or perhaps even a time-waster (troll)." Most of the best and brightest here are very busy people, and rightfully jealous of their limited time for fishkeeping.
You see, not one of us can ever hope to keep up.
New fish are evolving and going extinct faster than humans can write it all down. This is an incredibly complicated business, where Cichlids are about the worst for rapid physical evolution and evolving behaviors.
Unless you purposely make yourself unpopular, the folks at MFK will help you with it all, but some effort (and a large portion of human understanding) may be required on your part.
. . . If I clean the seeded media it will DEFINITELY kill beneficial bacteria . . .
You won't kill much if it's done correctly, and when conditions of pH and temperature are correct it blooms back almost overnight, given food enough.
You can get a suitable hose and siphon the media to a bucket. Rinse it in a sieve with tankwater, and siphon it right back into place with the hose. You can just scoop it, but a siphon makes less mess and insures good placement. Don't let the media get cold or dry ever.
But the fish come first.
Always and foremost.
They will live without the bacteria, given enough clean water changes and proper feeding schedule.
And bacteria grow right back, in a correct environment.
The more you know about what you have, the better we can give advice.
Strain the brain a bit more, fellow!