Am I being Selfish?

[Pharaoh]

I will try to be as real as possible. I am about to be married within the month. Although we are both firm believers in each others personal alone time, this would have to be that opporuntiy when you suck it up and wait. Even though you had plans to go on a weekday by yourself, I thinkyou would be better served to wait and let her enjoy it with you. My fiance isn't really into fish, but she really does love all creatures. She would let me go by myself if I pushed it, but i think she would be hurt at the same time.

Sooo.. although I do not think you are being selfish, cause plans are plans, you should wait to go with her.

 

[Gr8KarmaSF]

Still tied at 8 vs 8

lol

 

[Fly River]

I don't know your situation enough, but I would probably go by myself and then go with her later.

Then you get the best of both worlds

 

[Pharaoh]

Don't get me wrong either. I pretty much do what I want to do when i want to do it and she is cool with that. but sometime you are better served to keep the water from rippling.

 

[koop171]

here is whereI stand.... I would say assuming you spend lots of time with her Like I do my g/f I would go by myself first so that way you could take the amount of time YOU wanted to and then take her a couple weekes later. You need your time and she needs hers. My G/F is supportive of my hobby in ways most only dream theirs would be. But I need Me time too.


So go alone first then go with her soon after.

 

[jcardona1]

we need input from the ladies of MFK. where they at when you need em! lol

 

[KNH]

Wait for your significant other. Great relationships are much more important than a hobby. The fish will be there later.

 

[rmorse]

Personally, if my g/f wanted to go with me later, and I wanted to go now, I would probably talk to her. Ask her if she was cool with either a) going early with me or b) me going both times.

If you have to be alone, then that is another story. You just tell her that you wanted some time alone to go to it. No biggie. My girl plays Halo 3 with me, and sometimes I don't want her to play with me. I will let her know when I wanted to play by myself.

If you start communicating early about it (I dunno your relationship status), then it just gets easier and easier to do things by yourself when you need to.

Keeps you sane, and happy.

 

[Gr8KarmaSF]

we need input from the ladies of MFK. where they at when you need em! lol

 

[Ninjafish]

man just voted.... 50/50 lol ... i say which ever way makes your other less mad